Why the Bridal Bouquet?

There are many things written about the glorious and stunning flower bridal bouquet and the history that goes along with it, which I have always found fascinating, these traditions are old old old and you don't have to have them, but if you don't,  it just doesn’t feel like a wedding, so regardless of your budget it’s a no brainer you gotta have you some flowers.

Flowers  Make it Beautiful                   Image  Jenna Fahey White

Flowers Make it Beautiful                  Image Jenna Fahey White

Anyway, there are the boring versions of why the tradition of carrying the bridal bouquet came about, like it wards off evil spirits blah blah but my favourite step back in time reason the ladies carry a bridal bouquet, goes a little like this...

Many many years ago, 17th century years ago, women in the Northern hemisphere, only bathed once a year, and there was only so far a flannel and a little talc would get you, and that month was about the May/June mark, hence why so many weddings were held in June.

These massive bouquets were filled with herbs, spices and quite often garlic, this was to mask the  odour of our infrequent bather ergo our bride and bridal party because we didn't want our almost hubby running for the hills before the marriage begun. the massive bouquets, which are so en-trend at the moment, was placed on the wedding table and used during the wedding feast after the ceremony.

Floristry by  North St Botanical                     Image by  Alli Oughtred

Floristry by North St Botanical                    Image by Alli Oughtred

Flower crowns have been  a symbol of love, fertility and celebration throughout history and around the world, from the Greeks who honour the gods to Julius Ceaser as a form of victory and respect the Chinese culture wearing to symbolise fertility and hopefully bring children into the marriage. In this day and age it really is because they look so darn good.

Flower Crown and image by  Mary Mary Studio , who I had the honour of marrying this year,

Flower Crown and image by Mary Mary Studio, who I had the honour of marrying this year,

So why the flowers on the fella? I have no idea, perhaps it was in case the bride dropped hers and he had a back up plan right under his nose.

How to pop them on - See those two pins! use them both from behind the lapel thread one through the top and one through the bottom, and NOT at the botton hole, it looks ridiculous way up the place it an inch or two down from there, depending on your suit jacket of course, but the celebrant or photographer is always on hand to help out.

Buttonaires by  Flos Botanical Studio

Buttonaires by Flos Botanical Studio

Your Little Bit Goes A Long Way

To all my delicious Brides and Grooms

Thank you for choosing me, and as you know because I tell you in our first meeting, in return I do a little thing called Pay it forward you can have a little look-see here.

   Thank YOU because YOU bought two more pushbikes    Our Project 18 Pushbike

I became a celebrant and felt so happy I was doing something I absolutely loved it went hand in hand with paying all good things forward,  a part of my fee that YOU pay goes to Our Project 18.

OP18 is our all little charity doing little things for children less fortunate than my own. My daughter and I started this project up in July 2013 and since then have raised $20000, It was meant to be for two years, until Paige turned 18 however, since seeing the children several times over that period we can’t let them go now. We may not do much but what we do makes a difference to the children we help and that’s what keeps us going on our little projects.

Our first visit in 2013, we had a little party, they love punch balloons.

One of our favourite projects, which we created when we were there July last year and by far the one we are proudest of is Our Project Pushbike. We saw the difference it made to the first 5 children we bought the bikes for as they rode off home for their midday break before returning for afternoon classes, some children were walking up to 4 hours a day to get to and from school.

Our first 5 bikes which kick started our project pushbike on our last visit in 2015 read about it here

They were so excited choosing their bikes albeit still in shock

Anyway I could write about this for hours but for today this is what I am saying thank you for, shit my eyes are starting to leak I have got to get a grip of my emotions, helping two more little kiddlets from Vung Tau, Vietnam.

Sharon the Celebrant has just purchased two more bikes for two children in the Vung Tau community, we love that we can branch out from the two orphanages we support to also support the wee ones in the Vung Tau area who need it more.

Thank you again to all my gorgeous couples, see how a little tiny bit goes a long long way!

My angels Nhi, Mei and Ngoc on our first visit in 2013

A Celebrants Struggle is Real #1

This is a behind the scenes story of a stressed out marriage celebrant towards the long and winding road to Matty and Bec's wedding.

How divine, a winter wedding in the Otway ranges, paradise that is King Parrot in the heart of Pennyroyal. 

Roadie and I are super excited, so much so we book accommodation the night before the ceremony and use the excuse of a little getaway with a little rehearsal along the way to Lorne.

Wohooo and we are off, we hit Kings Way (2 mins from home) and it is bumper to bumper, apparently due to debris on the Bolte which is effecting the ENTIRE UNIVERSE ok so we might be a tad late for the rehearsal!

An hour later (5 km's) we finally hit the Westgate...onwards and upwards we say, still super excited, rehearsal still on the agenda.
Hour number three rolls around with Sat Nav having taken us up 2 no through roads, doesn't recognise the freeway, takes us off a beaten track it has turned dark, it has turned misty, Sat Nav completely lost now, Google maps yep, you guessed it GONE! Many quiet km's later, too scared to speak, we find ourselves in Lorne NOT Pennyroyal ARGHHH! 
Sorry bride and Groom I'll talk you through it tomorrow, I ain't travelling back through that treacherous windy, dark, icy road to find a track that doesn't exist at night, I don't care how much I like you both.
The temperature outside has hit 1 degree we rug up with every item of clothing we have packed wander the one street of Lorne, find a restaurant open and feast on ricotta gnocchi and 17 glasses of wine to calm the hell back to normal levels of calm, apart from frostbite all is right with the world.
We set off the next day, ceremony day, with a handwritten map from the lovely lady at Mantra on Lorne and we are off.
First wrong turn, another no through road, the smallest muddiest track abort! Abort! ABORT!

We feel like we are in the middle of nowhere, the car makes a screeching noise I think to myself WE'RE GUNNA DIE AND NO-ONE WILL EVER FIND US AND WE WILL MISS THE CEREMONY you may think I'm being dramatic but you weren't there so Shoosh! Back to the main road, more googling, hand written map missing a detail or two, more googling, we finally see the Kingparrot cottages sign and I burst into tears,I am serious, I realised I hadn't really been breathing properly since car noise incident half hour prior(roadie thought it was a wild animal not the car OMG! WE WERE COULD HAVE BEEN EATEN ALIVE) , roadie stops vehicle on dirt track and does her best to make me feel sane again, she grabs the rescue remedy from the suitcase and comforts me as best she can "it's ok honey, we're here now" makeup touchup, all intact, lets rock.
Wowsers! The ceremony setting is the most beautiful I have ever seen, and that is pretty big considering I'm such a city slicker, it looked surreal and vast and intimate and green and and and and...

The stunning view at King Parrot in Penny Royal.

Hi to the lovely owner Tony, chat chat chat to Bec the gorgeous Bride, chat chat chat and sort out Handsome groom and groomsmen, the last traumatic 20 hours, apart from the 17 wines and pasta, wash away.
Hmm gee what an angle that aisle is, there's mud, there's rough terrain my usual back and forth organisation is a massive workout mainly focusing on not falling over, I have the groomsmen as my backup catch me I'm falling guys, guiding me from one spot to the other then back again. Ive got everyone on aisle standby for any wonky steps along the way.

Admiring the view when I hear RIIIIPPPPPPPP crisis averted, Jonno just sorting that one thread on Cammo's suit pocket..I am a donkey on the edge

I'm so cold I don't care how ridiculous I look all buttoned up, my hands were shaking I could barely sign the marriage certificate, my nose started dripping, I had to scoot behind the groom to have a little wipe, lucky it was vow time.

A quick wipe of the snoze during the vows..by gingos is was cold

They were so ha hap happy and so was I.

Oh Lordy the second reader is way over the other side along with my mic, Ahhh Jason can you just grab that mic on the table in front of you and turn it on,yep that's the way, great thanks, the mud has me stuck in a safe spot I was rather comfortable in, he was a champ.

There's cheers and yahooing, the animals go running as I pronounce them as husband and wife and they pash like no one is looking, and they did, even I blushed... now let's get the stunning bride to the signing table unscathed, Da Dah!!!

The Animals

We did it, we are married, music maestro, let's get these two back up the aisle, safely, as Mr and Mrs Holding.

The moral of his story is,the struggle is real people, the cool calm and collected celebrant is racing 1000 miles an hour on the inside, and wouldn't have it any other way oh apart from the ruined favourite winter wedges from the mud, I'd have that another way.

Matty and Bec thanks for having me, it truly was one of the most stunning ceremonies ever, you both glowed and embraced each other throughout the entire shabang and my heart puffed and pumped with such pride it almost burst into a 1000 pieces inside.

Matty & Bec in one of their many intimate moments during their ceremony at King Parrot

The amazing florist was she's a wildflower, I will be a posting don't you worry, they were STUNNING oh and Bec's dress.